Opposite the Sunflowers
I sit on the bench opposite Sunflowers once a month, give or take. Usually on the way back from something in London. Train into Charing Cross, ten minutes in Room 43, train home. A small private detour. You get blocked, sitting on that bench. People walk up and stand in front of you and you…
The Algorithm and Samuel
She was ahead of me in the coffee shop, phone in one hand, oat flat white in the other. Talking with her friend. “Honestly? I just trust the algorithm. It knows what I’ll like better than Samuel ever did.” Samuel, I assumed, was her local bookseller. Or maybe the friend who used to slip her…
The One Who Didn’t Know Any of That
People don’t usually tell you when your writing is good. They just read it and move on. So when someone takes the time to say something, you notice. What I started noticing was this. When people mentioned a post, it was always the same ones. The street sweeper my mother pointed out when I was…
When Time Gets Short, Work Gets Better
Most good work doesn’t happen in perfect conditions. It happens with just enough pressure to focus the mind. A little adrenaline. A deadline close enough to matter. Not panic. Not chaos. Just the awareness that time is limited and already running. That awareness changes things. Distractions fall away. The unnecessary options quietly disappear. You stop…
Write to Live Better
If you want a life filled with skill, productivity and creativity, think carefully about what really matters. This leads to genuine engagement. Don’t accept a life that is tough, empty, and short-lived. And the best way to think clearly is to write. Writing sharpens your thoughts. It catches vague ideas before they slip away. It…
Who Shows Up When It’s Hard
It’s easy to be someone’s friend when it costs nothing.A quick Gchat. A shared laugh. A joke liked, a thumbs up sent.Convenient, comfortable, light. But real friendship shows itself when it’s anything but convenient.When it asks for your time when your busy.When it interrupts your plans.When it makes you stand up for someone when staying…
Bad Days Happen
Bad days happen. Expect them. It helps. Marcus Aurelius did — he reminded himself every morning that people would be rude, unfair, selfish. He wasn’t surprised when they were. He was ready. You can’t control traffic, gossip, deadlines that slip. You can control your response. That’s the whole game. Epictetus would say: Focus where your…
Falling is not failing
Lessons are everywhere in life, even in teaching kids to ride a bicycle. You hold the seat. You run beside them. You shout encouragement.They wobble. They fall. You steady. You let go. They ride on before falling. As they hit the ground, the realization hits you. This is what they’ll always need.The right amount of…
What you’re not chasing, you’re choosing
You say it’s not the right time. You say you’re focused elsewhere. You say you’ll come back to it later. But here’s the truth: What you’re not chasing, you’re choosing. Choosing comfort over growth. Certainty over possibility.The known path over the one that calls you. Not chasing doesn’t mean standing still. It means moving in…
The Third Seat at the Table
You’re delivering a project for a customer. You’re working with a partner. And things get bumpy. You don’t always agree with their approach. They don’t always understand your product. Frustrations build. And then it happens.The tension shows. In meetings. In emails. Sometimes, even in front of the customer. You think You’re being subtle.You’re not. When…
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