As a lover of literature and collector of words. I would like to draw your attention to the word Apricity, which means the warmth of the sun in the winter. With 5 days of the winter left in the UK we get more of these warm(ish) days now. This term comes from the Latin meaningContinue reading “Apricity”
Author Archives: NCS
The End is important in all things
Today, I want to talk about the importance of endings. As human beings, we often get so caught up in the excitement and momentum of starting new projects, relationships, or ventures that we forget about the crucial step of closing things down. Ending things is just as important as starting them, if not more so.Continue reading “The End is important in all things”
Nothing beats kindness,’ said the horse. ‘It sits quietly beyond all things
You won’t see kindness called out in any interview notes. You won’t hear it being called out as an executive’s best quality in an introduction on stage, you rarely hear it being mentioned in business at all really. As Charlie Mackesy says in his book The boy, the mole, the fox and the horse: “NothingContinue reading “Nothing beats kindness,’ said the horse. ‘It sits quietly beyond all things”
Any questions?
This subject seemed so obvious I questioned myself for writing it. The more I thought about the more it seems such an essential life skill it was worth examination. Please let me know your thoughts on this post as I am writing part two tomorrow night. Have you ever been in a situation where youContinue reading “Any questions?”
When life gives you lemons, grab the tequila and salt
Life is full of surprises, some good and some not so good. Sometimes, things don’t turn out the way we want them to, and it can be easy to feel discouraged or defeated. Don’t feel sorry for yourself for too long. The truth is, things turn out best for the people who make the bestContinue reading “When life gives you lemons, grab the tequila and salt”
Apple Notes, my second brain
Our brains are amazing machines, but they have their limits. We can only remember so much information, and it’s easy to get overwhelmed or forget important details. That’s where a second brain comes in. A second brain is a digital tool that helps you store and organize information, so you can access it when youContinue reading “Apple Notes, my second brain”
Any questions Part 2
The second in my series of asking questions. I some folks have messaged me there reasons why people don’t ask questions after a presentation. Thank you for those. I have captured them below: Inspired by Maria B who messaged me on LinkedIn I though of things we could do to be more encouraging: To encourageContinue reading “Any questions Part 2”
In small things, strength lies
My favourite short story writer is Katherine Mansfield. When I return to read Ms Mansfield it is like revisiting an old friend. Her writing style is unique and timeless, exploring the complexities of the human experience through a focus on the small moments that make up our lives. Each time I read her stories, IContinue reading “In small things, strength lies”
The Sea cures all ailments
I spent the weekend down by the sea. It is Dad’s birthday and we all met for a meal. In the morning I walked by the sea to get my morning coffee. There’s something about the sea that has a restorative effect on my weary soul. Is it the sound of the waves crashing againstContinue reading “The Sea cures all ailments”
Why Lighthouses?
I was in my company Field kick Off a couple of weeks ago and so many of my colleagues came up to me to say “I saw or visited a lighthouse on vacation and I thought of you”. It was nice to think people see a lighthouse and they think of me. I have alwaysContinue reading “Why Lighthouses?”
Servant Leadership: Leading with Humility and Empathy
I Just walked to the Coffee shop this morning. My son Xander is participating in a park run preparing for the Brighton Marathon. A cappucino in hand I turn my thoughts to a subject which means a lot to me. I wanted to share my thoughts on Servant leadership. It is at its heart aContinue reading “Servant Leadership: Leading with Humility and Empathy”
Life is buffet
It is 06:41, bleary eyed I look up from my screen to get a moment to think. I have spent the last three days and nights in Amsterdam. A weekend away with Melanie (My wife of 27 years). We are headed back on the Eurostar. What a wonderful few days, we visited the Rijk’s museum,Continue reading “Life is buffet”
Today’s pain, tomorrow’s nostalgia
Tom Stoppard wrote once “We cross our bridges when we come to them and burn them behind us, with nothing to show for our progress except a memory of the smell of smoke, and a presumption that once our eyes watered.” Do you ever feel like life is too fast, that your life is fullContinue reading “Today’s pain, tomorrow’s nostalgia”
Working out of Starbucks on a Sunday
In a bid to stay out of the way while Mrs CS cleans the house I agreed to work from a Starbucks with my daughter Natty for Sunday morning. I forgot how much I enjoyed this vibe. I used to love working from a coffee shops but have not for ages. I forgot how IContinue reading “Working out of Starbucks on a Sunday”
No Dumping
Have you ever seen a sign like the one above? They are usually near a playing field, or a disused parking space. It says ‘no Dumping’ that is a pretty good motto for writing in general and certainly this blog. Even if you do not identify yourself as a writer, you are! You write hundredsContinue reading “No Dumping”
How to read more
If I get one question more than any other it is. how do you find the time to read so much. The advice I give is simple but I wanted to share how any of us can read more than we do right now. The barriers for not reading more than you read right nowContinue reading “How to read more”
What’s the last thing you do on an important email?
The answer is: Add the email address !! If you are writing an important email. One you have spent more than 20 minutes writing and you have the time. Write the damn thing, save it as a draft, and, more than a few hours later, THEN put the email address in and hit send. There isContinue reading “What’s the last thing you do on an important email?”
Slow Horses and stormy weather
It’s a blustery Saturday morning in the sleepy seaside town of Shorehem-by-sea. Barely 5:30am and a pebbles throw away the beach plays it’s part in a stormy scene with large white waves and wild winds. The little home here sits firmly and obstinately still against a tempest of wind and rain. A warm mug ofContinue reading “Slow Horses and stormy weather”
Specialist vs Generalist
Whether you are a specialist or you are you a generalist. Opinions are divided if there is a right path to go down. I think that you have to know the type pf person you are and if you are comfortable with the focus and depth that expertise demands. OR, If you want to beContinue reading “Specialist vs Generalist”
Worry often gives a small thing a big shadow
Life is hard. My mother used to say often, “Nathan, no one promised you a rose garden” Everyone of us experiences difficulties that are hard to overcome. It was Buddha that said “Pain is certain, suffering is optional.” No matter what we’re going through it is better when we take ownership and accountability for making positiveContinue reading “Worry often gives a small thing a big shadow”